Insight on Unrequited Love
Ever witnessed unrequited love. Unrequited love or one-sided
love is the love that is not openly reciprocated or understood as such.
The beloved may or may not be aware of the admirer's deep and strong romantic affections.
There are various opinions present some say that one-sided love is better than
none. Others, considered that indispensable, to the lover is his unrequited
love, which he would at no price relinquish for a state of indifference. It is
actually a form of addiction. We get lost in longing and it’s that
feeling of longing that we mistake for love. It becomes habitual, part of
who we are and how we experience life. It lurks behind everything and
taints every moment of joy and happiness that could be ours if only we were
brave enough to root it out.
Love is one of life’s greatest teachers and mysteries, but
it’s almost as it becomes obsession with cracking the code of love itself when
someone doesn't love us back. There is a clear choice where we can decide that
there is something horribly wrong with us and something is wrong with the other
person. The love here turns people into an object of worship, a false
idol. As long as we aren't actually with them, we can weave our
own powerful myths about which they are and of how perfect everything
would be if we were with them. This whole mental dream collapses when you spend
some time with them. In real relationships, people argue. You plan a
passionate day out of joy and fulfilment and they are busy on
their cell phones or checking out books. Ideally in your world of
fantasy with this incredible love object, this is never predicted.
Unrequited love is a major way of leaking power, even though we might recognise
its dangers, we can also convince ourselves that we can’t get out of that awful
state unless someone rescues us.
From a spiritual perspective it might be that we have a
‘past life’ connection with that person or loved them in another life so that
in this life they feel incredibly familiar. Clinging onto a past life
experience can block our souls growth in this life. We have to rescue
ourselves, claim our own power back, snap ourselves out of the spell that’s
been cast. That begins by us recognising that we have fallen into a state
of negative enchantment and being willing to do whatever it takes to break
it. That way, we set ourselves free to go on and attract real love.
If you look back once the spell is broken you’ll see the most astonishing
sight. Where you might have seen a God or Goddess, you’ll see an ordinary
person. If you could see through the eyes of your soul, you might see
another soul who came along at the perfect time to allow you to experience what
it’s like when you give away your power. You may even send them a silent
blessing for giving you such a wonderful gift – that is, just before you turn
away and go and get on with your own life once more and manifest the real love
you deserve.
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